What's On Your BUCKET List?
As the end of the year approaches, most people think about going into the new year either anticipating a list of "new" resolutions or "rehashing" former resolutions.
I used to enter the new year with my list and Positive Patty attitude - Ready to diet, exercise, read my Bible daily, keep my spiritual goals, stay in touch with family and close friends, save money, and learn new skills for work. By the end of February, maybe March, fear of failure crept upon me like a black cloud regarding these resolutions.
FAILURE!
Oh how that word rang out loud when I stopped going to the gym (one of the many examples). It was like the alert on your phone that kept reminding me, you didn't make it, again! As disciplined as I thought I was, I still felt like a failure.
I realized something. I had to get out of my own head.
Here's what I LEARNED - I had to focus on the progress and not the perfection. Let me repeat that for all the perfectionist reading this blog, including me. Focus on the progress: Your Journey is different. Your situation is different. You are different and unique and that's what makes YOU Special. You won't fail, and if your goals have changed since last year, you haven't failed. You simply recognized your limitations and adjusted your plan. As you go forth with your new plan, please, don't allow those nay-sayers to rent space in your head.
If nothing else, GIVE yourself a little credit for taking the initiative. Do you know how hard it is to start something new or take that first step? It takes nerve to step up to the starting line. Wait for it. . .
On your marks. Get set. GO!
Creating a bucket list is a great way to set goals and dream big. It helps you focus on what truly matters and motivates you to make the most of life.
Here’s my ultimate bucket list. It's filled with adventures, personal growth, and unique experiences close to my heart that I'd like to achieve. I hope this inspires you to embark on your personal journey of checking off items on your bucket list or finishing your "bucket - to do list" or pursue your goals and dreams.
Why did I chose these 'drops' in my bucket? That's a fair question. Just as I mentioned above. These are unique to me and it's okay if they are not the norm. That's what makes us unique. These goals represent my life, my passion, my hug and love for mankind. my are a part of my : Each of these goals represents parts of chapters in my story - Even if that means new challenges and stepping out of my comfort zone.
Ms. Zipporah's Bucket List
Smile and continue to being happy - I will greet everyone I meet with a smile (There's truly more happiness in giving than receiving - (Acts 20:35)
Watch Casablanca
"Here's looking at you kid." Who doesn't love that line? A Classic. Someone once called me "Kid" in a loving affectionate way. I was swooned and immediately, I thought of this movie.
Write a Book (I have a completed manuscript that I'm editing. I need to move into the next phase)
Share my story and ideas through a published book - Dream BIG - have a famous writer share my manuscript with producer and make it come alive on the big screen!
Travel - (Threefold! The goal is to complete all three within two years - I love this!)
Hawaii - I'm looking forward to an "Aloha" experience
Paris (France) - Experience my best selfie standing next to the Eiffel Tower.
Volunteer Abroad (By leaving a positive impact) - Share the Bible, offer spiritual support, and encourage others.
Learn a New Language
I should have taken Spanish III in high school. Living near the Bronx, connecting with my friends and the Latino culture, I just knew I would be fluent with Spanish I & II under my belt! My goal is to practice every week (in addition to my ASL culture). I'm always looking for growth and development.
Retire -Eventually right??
Although I have quite a few years to go, there's nothing like planning now.
Run a Marathon
Maybe I'll start with a 5K or walk for a great cause close to my heart - Cancer, Alzheimer, etc. My goal is to challenge myself physically and mentally, and to complete the marathon.
Explore Beauty of Underwater Treasures
On my next cruise, I promise not to spend too much time worrying about my goggles, mask, and equipment. I will dive in, go snorkeling, and enjoy the beauty of marine life. (Like Spongebob)
Learn to Cook a New Cuisine
Master the art of preparing one dish from a different culture.
Practice Meditation Regularly (Consistently)
Specifically, I need to meditate for inner peace and well being - which goes hand in had with digesting what I take in by reading the Bible.
Complete a Creative Project
I'd love to start with a Wine and Design (Paint and Sip) - as I've seen others complete. Then, I'd like to write a song or poetry maybe create something meaningful.
Get dressed up like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman and watch an Opera
Even if it's sitting "PRETTY" in front of the TV. (smile) I'm good at that!
Give my FLOWERS of Gratitude Daily
Making sure I tell my loved ones, "I love you" often.
Journaling my gratitude list
What's in your bucket? What are you looking forward to this year? What's your calling? Who are you looking to inspire? What are you looking to create? There are so many incredible experiences life has to offer.
It all starts with a thought - an idea - a pen and paper. No matter how big or small. Write it down. Get that vision board going and keep it simple. You would be surprised how creative you are.
I BELIEVE IN YOU!
Now, I need you to believe in yourself.
Thank you for joining me on this journey. I hope this s inspires you to create your bucket list. When you're done, please feel free to share your bucket list.
In The Brown EYES of Avon, Desiree creates a "bucket list" of her own - with one goal. Will she succeed with that one goal? Time will tell.
~ Love
Ms. Zipporah
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